If your loved one has a wider circle of friends, whom you do not know very well, try to get to know them, especially if there are single girls among them.
Do you get an unbearable feeling of jealousy every time your partner does any SMS arrive? Are you insecure about your intimacy when he spends time on social media? One of the main reasons that lead to the breakup of love relationships is that one of the partners starts behaving very possessively in the relationship.
This feeling of jealousy can be the result of many things ranging from the fact that a person has previously experienced that his partner is cheating on him, to the feeling of insecurity that is attached to his own personality. It can be quite difficult to deal with the fact that the person you are in a relationship with is overly possessive. It is this kind of jealousy that affects mutual trust, respect, and the relationship as a whole.
Stop dealing with the past
If you allow your past to define your present, there can hardly be a happy future for you. Even if your previous partner lied and cheated on you, you should not allow him to destroy what you have now. Your current partner is not to blame for your ex’s actions. Stop looking at him through his prism. You can’t change what was, but you have the opportunity to enjoy this now.
Live your life
Even though you are in a relationship, it does not mean that things that you do on your own should stop. Find an interesting hobby, spend time with your friends and family, educate yourself and improve on different levels. When you are occupied with something concrete, you have less time to deal with possessiveness.
Meet your partner’s friends
If your loved one has a wider circle of friends, whom you do not know very well, try to get to know them, especially if there are single girls among them. If you know the given people and if you know who he is talking to on the phone or corresponding with, you will be much calmer.